I believe that self harm is an addiction and not a phase. Most uneducated parents and people in general assume that self harm is just a phase. Most uneducated parents and sometimes even the self harmers themselves assume that the self harmer will eventually grow out of it. Self harm is an addiction and a deadly one that is difficult to overcome without the support of friends and family. The reason I believe self harm is an addiction is because at one point in time I was an addict, I was addicted to what I thought was my only true friend. I was addicted to self mutilation and it got to the point where I couldn't go a day without self har